So one of my friends from highschool is having a debutante event, and it's at a "lawn and tennis club." Whoa, what. The suggested attire is sort of nice light summer dresses. I haven't worn a dress in a very long time! I love and really admire the androgynous styles you have on this, and I don't want to wear a cotton pastel getup-- but what else can a gay lady wear in a semi-formal event without standing out like a sore thumb?
lawn and tennis clubs are where i spend my weekends…. in my dreams… in reality, i’m more of a woods and dive bars kinda lady. But i hear ya on not wanting to wear a summer dress… i pretty much loathe a “sun dress”. Femmeish, id go with a high waisted solid colored skirt, tucked in yet loose tank and nice cardigan and/or light blazer. More andro, sub skirt for white denim or mint, coral, or navy slim chino… even more andro, sub tank for a light colored button up in a solid or plaid and a braided leather belt… keeping said blazer. Shoes? Boat shoes, leather loafer….any outfit.